Preventing Being Hurt

       "I don't want people to tamper with my things because I won't tamper with theirs. So leave me alone, I know how I am living my life".  Is this the way you are also thinking. You feel save being alone and never want interaction with the people out there. You feel save in your comfort zone thinking you got it all right.

     So, what am I saying? Am I saying you should always be dependent and not do things on your own? No! But the values you get from people make you better than being a lone ranger. Yes, i know people can be funny at times. But, don't forget, people can also be a blessing. It just have to be you moving with the right people, who have the same vision as you do, and if they don't, they can guide you on how to fulfill yours while theirs is not lacking improvement too. In other words, don't judge people from afar, neither trust people at your expense. The wisdom is needed and don't forget: James1:5 If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.
    
    You need God to meet good people, to maintain good relationship with them and you also need God to move away from those that will only make a waste of your potential and left you empty. God will guide you as you make the right choice through the help of the Holy Spirit in Jesus name. Amen!

 God bless you.

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